God (or Goddess) forbid that we, as women, should ever act in “unseemly or unfeminine ways.” But those were the words of recruiters of women as nurses and volunteers during the Civil War. Since war is so ugly and brutal and bloody, unfeminine women would do a better job. Women are naturally feminine. That’s who we are. But we can and do, set aside that femininity to get certain jobs done. Any imaginable horrific situation during the Civil War would be best handled without worrying about femininity. Unseemly, well now, that’s a different story.
Suellen Ocean is the author of the Civil War Era Historic Romance, Black Pansy: