Time may have changed our laws, but natural attractions and bonds of love have always been there. Take the case of Stephen Cole in North Carolina in 1848. He’d been married several years to Mary, who to his “great grief, mortification and shame,” gave birth to a “mulatto child.” Apparently, Mr. Cole was a white man and Mary’s lover was not. According to public record, Cole did a little investigating. Sounds like he went around the community asking questions which must have terrified poor Mary, because in 1848, the laws were very clearly against love affairs between blacks and whites. Sounds like Cole discovered that his Mary found pleasure in the arms of Richmond, a slave from a neighboring estate. Let the record show two things:
Stephen Cole sought a divorce and thankfully, our laws have changed.
Suellen Ocean is the author of the Civil War Era Historic Romance, Black Pansy: